HELP! My Girlfriend Has A Smelly Fanny!
Henry asked :
My girlfriends fanny smells really fishy and as a result I do not give her oral sex, but I know she misses oral sex because her last boyfriend used to give it to her. What should I do?
Whether it smells like fish, fruit, chocolate, vegetables, or not so vegetables, not giving your girlfriend oral sex might complicate your relationship in the long run, think about the give and take rule. Now I understand that you’re not so comfortable with her odour, but each woman has their own scent and it varies due to a lot of factors like maybe her diet. It’s only natural that woman’s partner would generally know their scent better than they do since the man is the one going down on her!
Before you judge her odour, remember that even men have their own odour, unless you’re one of a kind with special raspberry scent and taste!
Here are a few things you might want to consider trying before fully restraining oral sex for your partner.
- Have a bath with her, yes, after shower oral sex could be amazing, not to mention the fact that her odour would decrease, thus makes it easier for you to perform cunnilingus. Don’t go down on her when she just got back from work after all that sweat and a hard long day, it only makes sense that her fanny would smell.
- The breathing technique might ease you up a little, when you’re down there, remember to breathe through your mouth but don’t blow air in to her sacred sanctuary that would only cause her pain.
- Multi-tasking, by that I mean don’t use only your tongue, give your time a little time out by applying your fingers on clitoris and rub it gently, when you’re ready dive back in gently again. This would actually makes women come faster and hey, it’s good for you too, you do need a slight break from time to time.
You might also want to consider the stage of your relationship right now, if you just started dating her then maybe you’re not used to her scent yet, like I said, each of us have different scents! So relax, breathe in, breathe out, and take your time until you go back down again, go when you â€˜want’ to, or when you’re in the mood, you’ll get used to her scent in time.
In addition to the whole smell issues, you got to look back at yourself, have you always had problems going down on women? Do you feel like it’s a sex taboo? If the answer is yes then the problem might not be the smell! Either way, try these few tricks before you confront your girlfriend, and in case you do confront her (which I recommend to be the last resort.) be sure you don’t do it when you’re performing oral sex or when you two are engage in the sexual activities. Talk to her casually, be understanding, calm, and make sure you show her that you are just concern but you still love her no matter what.